Settled In and Thailand in Summer of 2023

Settled In sounds a little like Boredom but that is not always the case. 

Today's song is: I Like You ... Malone and Cat

Jaidan is settled in with his new school and is doing very well scholastically. The social part of his life is not ideal but that is the case in many post covid children of his age. 

Thavorn is happy with her work and bank accounts as she has now saved enough money  to build the house of her dreams in her village. She continues to work because she has become accustomed to Canadian standards and wants to equip the house with the latest appliances and kitchen layouts.

Thavorn now works 9 days every 2 weeks and that is something I can live with because I have to drive her to work and then return home which means I drive for 2 hours a day. It is an easy drive but she may need to cut back once the snow starts to fly.

My buddy John and his wife have arrived back in Canada and are settling in. John has a trip to Thailand for a month in February and his wife will need to stay in Canada as her PR has not yet been approved. Canada is way behind on approving visas and Immigration.

We are tentatively planning a 3 month trip to Thailand in next summer (2023). Thavorn misses her family and I miss my walks on the wild side. I am also curious to see what has changed as well as seeing how Thavorn's world view has changed how she views Thailand. Thais are taught that Thailand is the best country in the world and farangs are a necessary evil (my opinion). Thavorn now understands what a welcoming and multicultural country looks like. 

We have now been in Canada for just over 3 years and Thavorn will be able to apply for citizenship, but then again, Canada is way behind in citizenship applications as well.

I will start exploring airfares and will report on what I find. In the meantime, here are some (boring) pics.

Jaidan and the Beanstalk - Science experiment

Thavorn continues to look good :-)

The cook needs the tools to work with.

Are Jig Saw puzzles boring?

Fall has arrived

TTYL

The Plan

 Today's song is: Just Give me a Reason

Our signature song that is often played at Hillary 2 on Soi 4 in Bangkok. This bar is a 'goto' bar for anyone visiting Bangkok and wanting to have a good time.

If you fail to plan then you plan to fail.

It has been over a month since my last post and frankly, it is because there is really nothing of interest to post. I doubt if my readers are interested in my Costco purchases, the back to school sales which are already happening, and driving Thavorn to work.

I have been busy rebuilding a fence for my sister and helping my daughter build her back yard deck. I continue to do some programming for my company. Again, probably not of interest to you.

Thavorn is very happy in Canada and our good friends from Thailand, John and Fon have arrived and are settling into retirement in Canada, similar to what we did, 3 years ago. I will not document their experiences due to privacy issues.

What may be of interest to you is our plan for the next 2 years.

Thavorn passes a milestone this month and she has now saved over a million baht. Never, in her wildest dreams (well maybe winning the lottery) did she expect to have that much money in her bank account. It goes to show, it is not how much you make, it is how much you can save and Thavorn is able to save every dollar she owns. Apart from purchasing a new motorbike for her son, which again, made her very happy. We continue to support her family back in Thailand to the tune of 12,000 baht a month.

We have rented a luxury townhouse in Barrhaven and signed up for a 2 year lease which started on May first 2022. The rent is $2050 which I can easily afford. I also lease a Kia Forte GT which is fun to drive and the lease expires on March 1st of the year our townhouse lease terminates.

At that time, Jaidan will be finishing up grade 4 which happens to be a grade I have taught. That means he can read and write which is probably the most important skills a child can have.

The plan is that in the summer of 2024 we head back to Thailand for an extended stay to build a house in Thavorn's village. I will home school Jaidan for grade 5 and he will also learn much about building a house. Thavorn will have 2 million baht in her account and she anticipates the house to cost about 1 million baht. We have already purchased the land in the village.

At that time this blog will document the whole process. For now, posts will be sporadic as there is not much interesting to post. As we get closer to heading back to Thailand I will post house plans and thoughts about what life is like returning back to the land of smiles.

That does not mean we will not be visiting before that time. I am anticpating a couple of months, either this Christmas or next Christmas, depending on the cost and availability of flights. Again, that trip will be well documented.

This blog remains an accounting of my life with a Thai wife, inside and outside of Thailand, along with my son's life. Jaidan is changing schools this Fall as we have moved. He had an excellent report card at his school in Osgoode and I expect he will do well in his new school, which is much larger. He continues to be bilingual with Thai and English and enjoys making fun of Thavorn's pronunciation of English words.

So, all is good ... TTYL

Chatting with family back home

Chicken feet for supper

Dining at McD's ... expensive in Canada

Basic Thai necessity

Our new abode

Boring

 Today's song is: One Night in Bangkok - Best watched full screen ... Murray as usual

I must admit, although pleasant, living in Canada is very boring compared to Thailand. Even walking down the soi you live on in Thailand is interesting. The street vendors always saying hi, as do the motorcycle taxi drivers, and the massage girls are always entertaining.

Here in Canada walking down the street, you are anonymous.

I was researching billiards bars, getting ready for my buddy John's return to Canada. Just one sounded interesting with lots of tables and a live band, until I got to the spot where it was the happening place for Algonquin College students. I doubt that we senior citizens would fit in.

Perhaps I would be better to search out Irish Pubs but the vast majority of then are down in the market which is a hike and parking is a challenge.

But then again, Bangkok and indeed Thailand is a unique place and not easily replicated if at all. Cambodia is similar fun on a much smaller scale with an unique French flavour thrown in.

So, I find myself looking forward to picking strawberries and apples with John and Fon and John mentioned he was looking forward to going to Timmy's with me. Major sigh :-)

I do believe you can adapt to your boring home country after a walk on the wild side but I do believe in BYOTG (Bring Your Own Thai Girl). It is no wonder that there are so many return visitors to the Land of Smiles.

TTYL

Nature Wins

 Today's song is: Right Place, Wrong Time ... Dr. John

Speaking of the alternate Dr. John from Bangkok ... He will be arriving back in Canada for the foreeable future on July 2nd. Many jars will be drained to celebrate his home coming.

I like to walk around the neighbourhood at night and just look at how people live. One thing I noticed is that all the front lawns have gone to weeds since Ontaio banned private use of herbicides and pesticides. The ban came about because the doctors lobbied that they thought these chemicals were causing cancer in children although there was no evidence that was the case and all the federal studies showed that the chemicals were safe. I supposed if you let your kids forage for food on the lawn that might be the case. Who knows, with the price of food these days parents may be using the grass for leafy greens in their salads.

One thing we learned during the pandemic is that quite a few doctors are a brick short of a load. Doctors should not pretend to be chemists. Look at the job they did pushing pain killers and getting many people hooked on them.

Back to the homes, enterprising folks are filling their lansws with rocks and pavers. Just as well as I can see a ban coming on gas powered lawn mowers. 

THe other major event was a huge, huge, huge major thunderstorm that rolled across the National Capitol region and destroyed mych of the power grid. 95% of homes lost their powere for 1 to 7 days and there are still thousands of homes without power at teh 10 day mark. Needless to say, this will get chalked up to global warming and another reason to ban the lawn mowers, or should we rename them weed mowers>

Many people, myself included, lost hundreds of dollars worth of food stored in the fridge and freezer.

Some Pics

We have settled into our new place nicely and we all seem happy, especially Thavorn sho loves her new kitchen and how bright and airy the new place is. Some pics, hopefully with the next post.

TTYL

A New Adventure

 Today's song is: It's a Good Life ... Tragically Hip

Tomorrow is a big day as we move from the country back to the burbs. Matter of fact, about 1 kilometer from the last house I owned before the big adventure that lead to where I am now, in my life.

The new neighbourhood is Barrhaven which my older children used to refer to as Farhaven as there was not much there. Nowadays, it is a city onto itself. I will now be able to walk to everything except for Costco which be a 5 minute drive. Matter of fact we are between 2 Costcos, each equidistant from our new home.

Our new home is what is referred to as a stacked luxury townhouse. We are the middle unit, so we just walk in up a few steps from the street. It is about 1200 square feet which was the size of my starter home. It is all one level, 2 bedrooms, and 2 bathrooms. Thavorn will get a walkin closet!

Jaidan will be attending a new school, which isCatholic, which will hopefully supply some answers as he has been asking some questions about God, etc.  Jaidan is not baptized and I suspoect he will explore Christianity and Buddhism before making a choice, which is probably the way it should be done, rather than chosen for him.

Thavorn seems to be looking forward to the move and getting our own space rather than sharing. I really can't blame her. It will, however, mean a longer commute for her to work.

I finally get some decent internet speed :-) and a reliable cell connection.

We get the keys tomorrow at 9 am and I will follow up with some pics once we get moved in.

TTYL

Big Change

 Today's song is: Change by Taylor

The first time we came to Canada on Thavorn's PR we stayed in a AirBnB for 6 months. We lived downtown and we could walk to everything and did not need a car. We quite enjoyed it!

At the end of that stay my son Jordan and his GF suggested we look for a house together to share. I thought, good all around, as I could help them with a mortgage. We found a beautiful house on 2 acres out in the country with 6 bedrooms, 4 car garage, etc.

When we arrived back in Canada we moved in on March 2nd, 2020, just over 2 years ago. Apart from continual construction, things went pretty well and I invested in a treadmill and a new motorcycle, as well as a car.

However, covid struck and we had online schooling for the first year and a heavy dose of cabin fever, but things were okay, not ideal, but what the heck, we were helping my son out.

However, covid was not kind to their relationship and they are splitting and we move out on May 1st. Back to my original plan, we are renting a luxury 2 bedroom, 2 bath, stacked townhouse in Barrhaven. Hooray, we can now walk to most things and drive to everywhere else in 5 mins or less. Jaidan will probably change schools in September but that is still to be decided.

Change has never really bothered me and it is through change that we grow. I had to sell my motorcycle as we will not have a garage. I am still undecided on selling the treadmill, but it may not be needed as we will be walking a lot more.

There will certainly be a lot more kids on the street for Jaidan to disvover new friends.

Thankfully, I am a minimalist and the move will be easy! My son moves out the same day so this time around we will share a truck. :-)

Pics, after we move in ... TTYL

Winter Almost Done

 Today's song is: The Top 10 from the Tragically Hip

On another note, Thavorn has beautiful Thai hair that I just trimmed. Jaidan has inherited Thavorn's hair which is a good thing.

We visited my sister on the Quebec side and I believe the winter is almost over.

Tomorrow, it is supposed to be 14 degrees. I am planning to wash the car and start my motorcycle up for a quick run to celebrate spring. The first official day of spring is March 20th. It has been a long winter!

Jaidan is at a camp during March break, this week. Apparently he has learned to skate, which just make him, a legit Canadian. Learning to skate is a nrite of passage for Candian children. 

TTYL